Category: Reflections

  • What makes God the best listener?

    What makes God the best listener?

    “That’s how God listens to us.” Fr. Robert Presuttie said this during the half-day retreat at Divine Mercy University.  The curious statement caught my attention.  The retreat was tucked away in a five-day spiritual direction residency devoted to practicing listening skills.  Each day the students would practice role-playing different scenarios that…

  • I made a difference for that one

    I made a difference for that one

    “I am numb after this week.” This was the ominous text I received from my wife last Friday evening.  I was miles away at Divine Mercy University helping with their spiritual direction residency. I felt guilty and torn that I was hearing her anguish via text.  Why the numbness?  She works at…

  • The Lord Spoke to Job in a Storm

    The Lord Spoke to Job in a Storm

    My heart reaches out to the people in Western North Carolina.  The devastation is unlike anything I’ve seen.  I feel a deep emotional connection to the places that Helene has destroyed.  Even The Flowering Bridge of Lake Lure I wrote about in June (The Best Way to Cross to the…

  • Living in the Now

    Living in the Now

    One day, the honeybees appeared in great numbers on plumes rising above the pompous grass by my mailbox. They found a treasure trove of pollen from the late summer blooms and celebrated maybe their last hurrah before settling in for the winter. I was fortunate enough to capture a photo…

  • A lesson from the resurrection lily on the spiritual life

    A lesson from the resurrection lily on the spiritual life

    Dotting gardens and landscapes around Western North Carolina are resurrection lilies. They are so named because the leaves appear lush and green in February, resembling daffodils. Unlike daffodils and many other bulbs, the leaves of the resurrection lily die without blooming. It is not until September that a solitary shoot…

  • An ordinary dream demands a new interpretation

    An ordinary dream demands a new interpretation

    “What’s it like?”  That’s a question Michele McCreary, a long-time acquaintance, asked me in a dream.  She was talking to someone I used to work with before I retired.  When our eyes met, she asked, “What’s it like?”  I thought she was asking about my retirement, as many people had…

  • “What happened to the sun?”  asked the two year old

    “What happened to the sun?” asked the two year old

    Last week, I was at Emerald Isle with my family.  In addition to my delight in being with my children and grandchildren and their spouses and partners, I received a neat lesson on the spiritual life.  I was holding one of my grandsons, J.B., who is two and a half. …

  • Three reasons God places a stranger in your path

    Three reasons God places a stranger in your path

    Occasionally, I experience what I call a ‘random ministerial encounter’.  I think we’ve all had them.  It’s when God places someone in your path, and you realize it’s not a coincidence (as nothing with God ever is).   After these encounters, I wonder, “Why did God place this person in my…

  • A new delight in icon gazing

    A new delight in icon gazing

    I’ve been practicing something called ‘icon gazing’.  In ancient times, it was called visio divina.  Similar to lectio divina, which could mean ‘spiritual reading’, visio divina is ‘spiritual gazing’.  The practice is basic.  Select an icon that might be speaking to the circumstances of your life.  Gaze at the image…

  • When we cry out, “This is enough, Lord.”

    When we cry out, “This is enough, Lord.”

    When you find yourself in spiritual desolation and feel like saying, “This is enough, Lord,” there is one question to ask: Who’s voice am I listening to – is it the voice of the Good Angel, or someone else?